Thursday 31 May 2012

The Hinge ~ 2 people !!

In a relationship, indifference and negligence do much more damage than outright dislike. An ideal situate of soul mates do not exist anywhere today. At times, people get lucky and meet someone who is the right one for them. Their combined flaws are arranged in such a way that they are perfectly hinged together. That is when they fall in love with each other- maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever. During these ups and downs of deciding the corridor of togetherness, keeping the hinge tight is a greater effort to achieve. I've often wondered what makes a relationship last...and I have always concluded to find that everything we love finally finishes off, including the love itself. Breaking even from everything is definitely difficult but one needs to stop punishing themselves for something they couldn't help. Sometimes things happen to people and they're not equipped to deal with them. Seldom does it happen that a relationship is not a little disguised and not a little mistaken. That is where disappointment comes in as heartbreak. In a relationship, no one has the right to say or do anything that diminishes you in your own eyes. It does not matter what you think of me, what matters is what I think of myself. Hurting someone's dignity is a crime. In that case, never be in such a relationship that is bonded with trailed disappointment. After all, you cannot loose something you never had.